Prom Etiquette Tips


Proms have changed a tad from decades ago when girls waited for boys to invite them and cry when no one called. Now anyone who wants to attend this high school dance can – with or without a date.

That said, it’s still fine to go with a date, but it isn’t completely up to the boy to do all the asking. There is nothing wrong with the girl choosing who she wants to go with. Whether the girl or boy chooses to go with a date, go with a group of friends, or go alone, there are certain etiquette rules that should be followed in order to have the best time and not infringe on the fun of others.


Here are some general prom manners guidelines and tips:

1. Be respectful of the invitation. When someone invites you to go to the prom, either accept or reject gracefully. Remember that rejection is painful, so let the other person down easily and with a smile. You can say that you already have a date for prom or that you’re unable to attend.

2. Know in advance who pays. Each person should pay for his or her own clothing and accessories. If you’re going with a group, you may want to share expenses for a limo (including the tip). If you have a date, be clear with expectations from the beginning. Due to the high price of everything, it’s not out of line for each person to pay his or her own way.

3. Wear flowers. Girls still wear corsages and boys wear boutonnières. If you have a date, it’s nice to purchase flowers for the other person. If you go alone or with a group don’t hesitate to get your own flowers to go with your outfit.

4. Dress appropriately. This may be a formal affair, but don’t forget that it’s still a high school dance. Girls, be youthful and flirty, but don’t show too much cleavage or leg. Guys, if you don’t have a tux (and most of you don’t), rent one at a reputable place where they can advise you on what looks best.

5. Indulge the parents. Mom and Dad may want to greet your date or friends at the door. Let them. And when they whip out the camera, put on your best smile and say, “Cheese.”

6. Don’t keep others waiting. Being fashionably late is very much out of style. Be on time for your date or group of friends.

7. Use proper cell phone manners. Be in the moment and enjoy the special night without constantly calling, texting, or checking messages on your cell phone.

8. Mind your manners. Good manners will always be in style, and during prom night, being on your best behaviour will help you make memories you’ll want to share for years to come. Acting disrespectful will do the opposite and give you a reputation that you’ll never be able to live down.

9. Dine with grace. Learn proper table manners before the special night and practice them until they come naturally.

10. Follow proper dancing etiquette. If you don’t have a date, you may dance the night away with anyone you want. If you do have a date, don’t forget who you’re with. You may still dance with other people, but discuss it with your date and make sure he or she doesn’t mind. You may want to suggest finding another couple and swapping partners for one dance. That way your date won’t be left on the sidelines watching.

11. Be respectful while taking pictures. Take as many snapshots as you want, but never catch someone in an embarrassing situation, thinking it will make a great post on social media. Everyone wants to look good at prom.

12. All good things must end. As you leave the prom, thank the organizers, hosts, and chaperones for their time and hard work. Respect the curfews of your date or friends you came with and make sure everyone gets home when they’re supposed to.[1]

by oohlala

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